The endless pursuit of love and happiness is highly over
rated by most people. It is what drives
some people to work excessively long hours, claw their way to the “top” on the
backs of others and ultimately provides only an unhappy shell of existence.
To some, the attainment of wealth, power, and fame is at the
core of their existence. The problem is
that these states are not 100% compatible with being content. By their very nature, wealth, power and fame
are addictive. They have the hallmark
qualities of addiction. No level is ever
enough, if other people get in the way, they may be crushed or hurt, and the
drive replaces all other emotions. Life
eventually looses all joy.
The reality is that in life, you are only racing against
yourself. Comparing yourself against
others is useless and counterproductive.
We never know the ultimate goal of a particular behavior of another
person. We may believe that a person is
doing action “A” in order to be successful because that is our goal and surely
others would ultimately have the same goal as we. But in fact, the goal of the other person,
may be to just maintain their sanity and get by with the least effort. So if we copy their behavior, then the
behavior become counter-productive to our own goals.
Instead, if we develop personal goals of BEING and embodying
compassionate wisdom, then our outlook on life and behaviors will be quite
different. If we strive towards turning
our lives into a really great loaf of bread, then the true riches of life,
happiness and contentment, will follow.
Great Bread Recipe
Ingredients:
- Understanding
- Patience
- Generosity
- Regular practice of caring and honest personal reflection
- Regular practice of chanting and meditation
- Seeking out better understanding of the pure universal teachings of spiritual co-existence among universal beings
- Compassion for all sentient beings-including oneself.
Directions:
Add
the all ingredients to your life. Gently
kneed and blend them into a consistent form.
Smooth out all lumps. Let the
dough sit and rise in a calm environment.
Once raised to full height, bake in the glow of acceptance until
content. Share with all you meet.
Very nice post, Jane. Thanks.
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